Guest:
The title of this post deals with your thoughts on alcohol. I am interested to know what your thoughts are, and if they are based upon your background as a recovering alcoholic and/or faith, and how so?
Thanks for asking! I think my thoughts on our policy and enforcement have been spelled out. I think you are asking me on a personal level what my thoughts are.
I think my past makes me more understanding of drinkers. I don't mean people with drinking problems, because I think that goes without saying. I have been able to have good discussions with students facing important decisions about sobriety and treatment. As a side note, it is really hard to find a place, as a college student, to get help - because students get lumped in with people with far more history and they seem more like REAL alcoholics.
But I feel like I understand our run-of-the-mill drinking students who just want to drink for kicks, to have fun, and get a little out of control. I think I would be a hypocrite if I didn't get that. I really don't like that the University has to enforce the policy (but we do). I'd rather let students make their own choices and deal with consequences. We live in a country where alcohol is pervasive so why not get used to it in college and experiment when learning to be independent? Except for my addiction, I have some great memories that involved partying.
Nevertheless, I have seen the downside personally and through others. I have seen lives ruined because of alcohol and sexual assault. I have seen alcohol lead to student deaths. I have seen alcohol lead to injuries and alcohol poisoning. I have seen students flunk out because they drank too much and studied too little. Sometimes it just seems so foolish. So much at stake, yet alcohol seems to win out so often. I thought Mark Sterner gave us a perfect example of that during his talk last year. So while I would like students to make their own choices, I think the drinking age and policy provide a better more liveable environment in the dorms than if the age was 18.
Anyways, I don't know if I answered your question. I can tell you my own experience doesn't make me against alcohol or drinkers. I clearly don't have al the answers on the topic. It is far bigger than one person's experience or one campus.